Let's Not Jump To Conclusions Too Quickly

Ben Carson
Let’s Not Jump To Conclusion Too Quickly
“My boss drove a luxury car everyday and it was my duty to greet him and to open the gates for him, as I worked as a watchman in his villa. But he never responded back to my greetings.
One day he saw me opening the garbage bags outside the villa in search for any leftover food. But, as usual he never even looked at me, it was like as if he never saw anything!
The very next day I saw a paper bag at the same place, but it was clean and the food inside was covered well. It was fresh and good food like someone had just brought it from the supermarket. I didn't bother as to where it came from, I just took the paper bag and I was so happy about it.
Every day I found this paper bag at the same place with fresh vegetables and all that we needed for home. This became my daily routine. I was eating and sharing this food with my wife and kids. I was wondering who this fool could be?! To forget his paper bag full of fresh food everyday.
One day there was a big problem in the villa and I was told that my boss has died. There were too many guests coming to the villa that day and I didn't get any food that day, so I thought that one of the guests must have taken it. But the same thing happened the 2nd day, the 3rd day and the 4th day.
It went on like this for a few weeks and I found it difficult to provide food for my family, so I decided to ask the wife of my boss for a raise in my salary or else I would quit my job as a watchman.
After I told her, she was shocked, and asked me, how come you never complained about your salary for the last 2 years? And why is this salary not enough for you now? I gave her so many excuses but she was never convinced!
Finally in the end, I decided to tell her the truth, I told her the entire story of the bag of groceries, and as to how it was my daily provision. She then asked me as to when this stopped? I told her after the death of her husband. And then I realized that I stopped seeing the paper bag immediately after the death of my boss. Why didn't I ever think of this before? That it was my boss who was providing this for me? I guess it was because I never thought that a person who never replied to my greetings could ever be this generous!
His wife started to cry and I told her to please stop crying and that I'm really sorry that I asked for a raise, I didn't know that it was your husband who was providing me with the meals, I’ll remain as a watchman and be happy to provide my service.
His wife told me, I'm crying because I've finally found the 7th person my husband was giving this bag full of food. I knew my husband was giving 7 people everyday, I had already found the 6 people, and all these days I was searching for the 7th person. And today I found out.
From that day onwards, I started to receive the bag full of food again, but this time his son was bringing it to my house and giving it to my hand. But whenever I thanked him, he never replied! Just like his dad!
One day, I told him THANK YOU in a very loud voice! He replied back to me to please not be offended when he doesn't reply, because he has a hearing problem, just like his dad!”
Oh! We have been wrong so many times judging others without knowing the true story behind their actions. Be kind and courteous in dealing with others, for everyone is fighting a hard battle. Be careful, not everything is about you. Before you assume, there is this thing called ASKING.
Don’t just jump to conclusion, because that is truly not an exercise, it may cause you more harm at the end of the day. Many of our problems are caused by how we process what happens around us. Don’t judge a situation you have never been in. Be humble enough to learn. You do not know it all. Lets change the way we feel about ourselves and others.
There are two sides to a story. Don’t believe everything you hear.
Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about.         remain ever blessed

DID YOU KNOW

1. Bad handwriting? Keep this in mind: more intelligent people tend to think faster, and as a result their handwriting is
more sloppy.
2. A Japanese soldier stayed hidden for 29 years after WWII ended because he didn't know the war was over.
3. Dreams carry more weight and meaning than our conscious thoughts while awake. 70% of your dreams contain secret messages.
4. Psychologically, the worst feeling ever is not knowing whether to wait or give up.
5. It takes your brainapproximately 90 seconds to decide if you like someone or not.
6. Smiling slows down aging and prevents wrinkles.
7. Insecurity mentally destroys you.

BEHIND THE DOOR

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This is really a great suspense...!!!!!




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Read it carefully to know what it is...




A man is driving down the road 🚗and breaks down near a monastery⛪.




He goes to the monastery, knocks on the door, and says, My car broke down.
Do you think I could stay the night?




the monks graciously accept him, feed him dinner🍚🍲, even fix his car🔧🚗.




As the man tries to fall asleep💤, he hears a strange sound💬.




The next morning, he asks the monks what the sound was, but they say,




We can't tell you. You're not a monk.




The man is disappointed😞 but thanks them anyway and goes about his merry way🚗.




Some years later,




The same man breaks down in front of the same monastery⛪.




The monks again accept him, feed him🍚🍲, even fix his car🔧🚗.




That night, he hears the same strange noise 💬that he had heard years earlier.




The next morning🌞, he asks what it is, but the monks reply, We can't tell you😶. You're not a monk.




The man says, All right, all right. I'm dying to know.😖




If the only way I can find out what that sound was is to become a monk, how do I become a monk?




The monks reply, You must travel the earth 🌍and tell us how many blades of grass 🌾there are and the exact number of sand pebbles🔎 When you find these numbers,




you will become a monk.








The man sets about his task.








Some 4⃣5⃣ years later, he returns and knocks on the door of the monastery⛪.




He says,




I have traveled the earth🌍 and have found what you have asked for. There are




145,236,284,232 blades of grass🌾 and




231,281,219,999,129,382 sand pebbles on the earth🌏.




The monks reply, Congratulations. You are now a monk😇.




We shall now show you the way to the sound📡.




The monks lead the man to a wooden door🚪 where the head monk says,




The sound is right behind that door.




The man reaches for the knob, but the door is locked.




He says, Real funny. May I have the key🔑?




The monks give him the key🔑, and he opens the door.




Behind the wooden door is another door made of stone🚪.








The man demands the key to the stone door.




The monks give him the key🔑, and he opens it, only to find a door 🚪made of ruby.




He demands another key 🔑from the monks, who provide it.








Behind that door is another door🚪, this one made of sapphire,








So it went until the man had gone through doors of emerald,




silver,




topaz,




and amethyst.




Finally, the monks say, This is the last key🔑 to the last door.




The man is relieved to know end🏁.








He unlocks the door🔓,








turns the knob,








and behind that door he is amazed 😳to find the source of that strange sound📡




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☝😐😶But he can't tell you what it is because you're not

 a monk
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Don't be angry at me .. I am
Also searching for the guy who sent me this one